Hey! Happy new year to all of you wherever you are right now. I wish your unachieved 2018 resolutions will be accomplished in 2019. I know that probably most of you still haven't done your last year's resolutions because they are bullshits. I made mine too, but I did not really achieve it nor set plans to purposefully do it. Because as 2018 went by, I realized that we could not plan everything in our lives and we just have to learn from our mistakes. It is not that I prohibit you to plan your life ahead, of course a little planning will be great to see your life goals and be determined of it, but it does not mean you have to be fixated just to achieve those resolutions. You can still look around you and learn much from it.
However, that is not my point of discussion right now. Consider myself as dramatic, but when something happens to me, I usually just pour them into my blog or sometimes I just write them for me to read personally. And as for tonight, something happened to me which I should not explain what it was but how it affected me and made me realize.
I came to a conclusion that we will never be alone. I realized that we cannot always depend on anyone, we cannot always count on someone. We have to stand up for ourselves, we have to fight for ourselves. Of course it is great to help those in need, but to take care of our personal matters, I am telling you; do not ever expect someone to help you because if your expectation does not happen as you thought it would be, you would be disappointed more than ever because you already had an image on how you would solve your problem with someone by your side, in which, it did not happen that easily because someone that you counted on did not do much help or worse, they left you.
So, what does it mean that we will never be alone if we cannot really count on someone? Well, you might feel that you have no one left to help you, but you also have to realize that the one who is devastated and lonely is not only you. You should know that. People out there also feel like they are alone and have no one else, they might feel they are the most unluckiest ones in the world, meanwhile, they are not. We will never know who is lucky and who is not, because our standards of lucky are different themselves.
Because sometimes, between those efforts in order to solve your problems, you also need to feel like you are not fighting alone and there will always be someone who fight and feel lonely as you do.
I know this is kind of short, but I just thought a friendly reminder would help.
You. Are. Not. Alone.
Until next time.
However, that is not my point of discussion right now. Consider myself as dramatic, but when something happens to me, I usually just pour them into my blog or sometimes I just write them for me to read personally. And as for tonight, something happened to me which I should not explain what it was but how it affected me and made me realize.
I came to a conclusion that we will never be alone. I realized that we cannot always depend on anyone, we cannot always count on someone. We have to stand up for ourselves, we have to fight for ourselves. Of course it is great to help those in need, but to take care of our personal matters, I am telling you; do not ever expect someone to help you because if your expectation does not happen as you thought it would be, you would be disappointed more than ever because you already had an image on how you would solve your problem with someone by your side, in which, it did not happen that easily because someone that you counted on did not do much help or worse, they left you.
So, what does it mean that we will never be alone if we cannot really count on someone? Well, you might feel that you have no one left to help you, but you also have to realize that the one who is devastated and lonely is not only you. You should know that. People out there also feel like they are alone and have no one else, they might feel they are the most unluckiest ones in the world, meanwhile, they are not. We will never know who is lucky and who is not, because our standards of lucky are different themselves.
Because sometimes, between those efforts in order to solve your problems, you also need to feel like you are not fighting alone and there will always be someone who fight and feel lonely as you do.
I know this is kind of short, but I just thought a friendly reminder would help.
You. Are. Not. Alone.
Until next time.
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